All It Takes Is Persistence

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My roughest year was, without a doubt, 2007. I had quit college after just five weeks and had barely settled down before I started having gallbladder attacks. The resulting surgery forced me into whatever work I could get to pay off the hospital bill. In my case, this work came in the form of two jobs: a hospital janitor and a Starbucks barista.

I hated both of these jobs. I spent the better part of 2007 daydreaming about my escape, about how within a year I’d be scaling Sugarloaf Mountain and operating a very rewarding (and very profitable) online empire. I’d grown up with the internet. Computers were all I knew. Surely my life’s purpose wasn’t to hang around a hospital toweling up the charcoal vomit of overdose victims.

By September I’d had enough. I put in my notice with no idea of where I’d go, just this vague notion that it’d have something to do with web design or with the web. I wanted to work for myself.

The 4 Hour Work Week

I spent a few months freelancing jobs I found on Elance. Just odd jobs. Editing audio, writing reviews, designing websites. Anything I was capable of doing, I applied to do. If you know about Elance at all, you know it’s a great place to find cheap labor. For that reason, it’s a really shitty place to find a job, but for a beginner like me it was all I knew to do.

I failed spectacularly at freelancing for nearly a year and a half, working hard, but barely making enough money to live on and doing very little in the way of empire building. It was around this time that I first read The 4 Hour Work Week by Tim Ferris. This opened me up to a whole different way of thinking about online business.

I had been focusing on all the wrong things. I’d been focused on service-based freelancing rather than the creation of so-called “Muses”. Success was, apparently, very easy to come by.

Like many, I followed Ferriss’ advice step-by-step and started planning product after product and testing (at least superficially) what would sell and what wouldn’t. I wrote ebooks, started learning how to make landing pages, explored public domain content for anything I could turn into a product.

And then I had huge success! I deserved it! I took shortcuts. I did just a minimal amount of keyword research and pushed out shit I wouldn’t buy or use myself! I made hundreds of thousands of dollars and finally found my path to freedom!

I’m just kidding. It didn’t work. I failed again and it was even harder to take than my less-than-spectacular freelance career because at least with freelancing I had no expectations. Implementing the methods used in The 4 Hour Work Week were supposed to make me thousands of dollars a month, but they didn’t… and for good reason.

The Reality of Working Online

I don’t fault Tim Ferriss or his book for my lack of early success. I fault the sense of entitlement that typically afflicts my generation and the nature of online success itself. By the time someone figures something out well enough to write about it (especially if this writing reaches a massive audience) then those methods are already outdated and not very useful.

Only in the last 6 to 12 months have I found any real success online and I can tell you the secret to it. It might sound cliché, but I promise this is what has worked…

It takes persistence.

It takes a willingness to fail to get where you want to go. I’m not saying you should aim for failure the first time around or that failure is imminent. As a matter of fact, I would even say that it’s impossible to have an outright failure in online business if you keep a look out for the opportunities that arise when things aren’t working out. It’s so easy to morph seeming failures into successes.

I’ve been in this game for almost three years. I had failed and failed and failed, but I worked through every single one of those failures and learned as much as I could from each. I started to recognize my weaknesses and implement systems that would focus more on my strengths.

As my company continues to make more money and grow and as we continue to launch new products and services, I have to look back to where I’ve come from, to what I’ve gone through, and realize that no matter how bad or how difficult it seems, it’s always possible to push through.

If success is all you want in life, pushing through is all you’re capable of.


Photo by Sergio Tudela


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27 Responses to All It Takes Is Persistence
  1. Dan
    June 9, 2010 | 8:22 am

    Just a big fat word brotha. Every. Single. Freaking. Day. Keep it up, love the new design.

    .-= Dan´s last blog ..Internet Marketers in the Philippines – The Global Meetup and Semester II Begins =-.

    • J. D. Bentley
      June 9, 2010 | 9:39 am

      Thanks, man! I love the new design, too. I’ve been looking to go a more minimalist route for a while.

  2. Fabian | The Friendly Anarchist
    June 9, 2010 | 9:55 am

    The best advice you can get. (And pretty hilarious here: “I did just a minimal amount of keyword research and pushed out shit I wouldn’t buy or use myself! I made hundreds of thousands of dollars and finally found my path to freedom!” :) )

    .-= Fabian | The Friendly Anarchist´s last blog ..How to Fix the Web =-.

    • J. D. Bentley
      June 9, 2010 | 10:01 am

      Haha, yeah. For me it’s more sad than funny because I actually did believe that would happen based on what minimal effort I’d put forward. Live and learn!

      • Fabian | The Friendly Anarchist
        June 11, 2010 | 5:10 pm

        Hmm, but hopefully in retrospect it’s not that sad anymore, although it surely was at the time. Honestly, I see you are creating a great business now, and – to me, at least – that’s about a million times better than being a SEO whore.

        • J. D. Bentley
          June 11, 2010 | 7:26 pm

          I don’t know how SEO whores can live with themselves. Seems like tedious cheating.

  3. Jaime-Ann
    June 9, 2010 | 1:32 pm

    Hey J.D.

    You are amazing. I mean I am drawn to your sarcasm and admire your ability to talk about whatever flies through your head and not look back. Or make it appear that way. I think it is because of those two things that you have succeeded and are well on your way to even surpassing your goals. (well I am sure there are other things too but this sounded better)

    You have a passion for what you do and a passion to help others succeed.

    From the very first time I reached out to you and asked for your help and services I knew I was in the right hands!

    • J. D. Bentley
      June 9, 2010 | 2:08 pm

      Wow. Thanks so much, Jaime! Can’t tell you how much I appreciate your kind words, your support and your business. Glad I could be a part of what you’re doing.

      Thanks for reading Wage Slave Rebel!

  4. Joel | Blog Of Impossible Things
    June 9, 2010 | 3:31 pm

    Persistence is key.

    I always try to fail fast. That way I can get rid of all my ideas that suck (90% of them) and spend my time on the ones that matter (10%).

    • J. D. Bentley
      June 9, 2010 | 3:35 pm

      Jason Fried sums up my view of failure quite well. (http://37signals.com/svn/posts/1555-learning-from-failure-is-overrated)

      • Joel | Blog Of Impossible Things
        June 9, 2010 | 4:42 pm

        “Don’t spend so much time looking down. Look up more.”

        I like that a lot =).

        –concerning the header– You too, haha (I didn’t design my theme, but I’m a big fan). Btw, I like what you’ve done with your design

        • J. D. Bentley
          June 9, 2010 | 7:43 pm

          Thanks, man. I wish I could go three months without tinkering with the design. This one feels pretty perfect. Minimalist… readable… I think it will last quite a while.

          Of course I’ve said that before.

          • Joel | Blog Of Impossible Things
            June 9, 2010 | 7:52 pm

            Stick with it.

            It’s clean, simple and has a great header font, haha.

            Content is more important than design. You got some good content and a good design.

            That said, I know the design struggle. Try to resist :)

    • J. D. Bentley
      June 9, 2010 | 3:37 pm

      Just saw your blog. Nice header font ;)

  5. David Krug
    June 9, 2010 | 3:46 pm

    Jd, For me I had huge success after huge success online. Making multiples of six figures from 2005-2007 only to have a few bad decisions with business partners and an ex wife wash out all that success.

    So over the last 9 months Ive been building it all up again. Bootstrapping is easy when consulting just lands at my feet with little to no search. Success makes creating success easier. But the road hasnt been hard.

    Your site is a great inspiration thanks for sharing man!

    • J. D. Bentley
      June 9, 2010 | 7:44 pm

      Sounds like quite the story. I’d really be interested in hearing it sometime. I’m sure there’s plenty I could learn from you.

  6. Mike Roberts
    June 9, 2010 | 4:55 pm

    Man, there is some gold in this post, I especially like this line:

    ” I would even say that it’s impossible to have an outright failure in online business if you keep a look out for the opportunities that arise when things aren’t working out. It’s so easy to morph seeming failures into successes.”

    This is exactly what I believe to be true when I think about online “success”. There seems to be no way to fuck up so bad that you can’t stop, and quickly correct course to move towards your goals.

    Failure is something different online, it’s like a friendly notification that something you are doing has no value. I am almost grateful when these “failures” occur, because like Joel said above, they allow us to get to the stuff that matters.

    Brilliant post today brotha!

    ~Mike

    • J. D. Bentley
      June 9, 2010 | 7:50 pm

      For sure. All it takes is some believing in what you are doing. That’s something I had previously lacked so I would get so embarrassed I’d just drop a project altogether when I could have morphed it into something better.

      • John
        June 9, 2010 | 8:37 pm

        Yeah I think that is a common tendency that a lot of people who are just starting online do. They put effort and time into a project and it doesn’t go the way they had planned so they drop it all together instead of refocusing their efforts and like you said “morph it into something better.”

        I am just starting to tap into the whole ‘make yourself who you want to be, online’ community, and I must admit I am surprised and delighted. Surprised at the fact that for once I see people online who are pouring their time and energy into creative projects and actually marketing with honesty. Its inspiring.

        Delighted to know that if I do the same, because I know I am capable, I can achieve the same lifestyle. Its like a breath of fresh air for this 25 year old who has been trudging though the “real world” knowing I don’t belong, lol. Thanks for the insight.

        • J. D. Bentley
          June 9, 2010 | 10:53 pm

          I’m in the same boat as you. It’s nice to get involved with proactive and creative people who aren’t just getting by but actually thriving. Glad you could stop by WSR!

  7. Tony Ruiz
    June 10, 2010 | 12:24 am

    Something I always told myself is “respect the process” – the process is what leads us to success (learning from failures, learning from success, making tweaks, etc.). We must be patient and we must be persistent

    • J. D. Bentley
      June 10, 2010 | 2:02 am

      Exactly. When I was starting that’s something I didn’t realize and I’m sure many others are the same way. You’re all about the end result. I’m still guilty of that sometimes. But, especially online, the process is all that really matters. If you keep tweaking it, things work out.

  8. Jacqueline
    June 10, 2010 | 1:24 am

    It’s hard to step back and not take things so seriously sometimes until you have some of that experience that you’ve gained over the last few years. Part of the problem is that we never see all the failures that others have had, only their successes. And because some people who do admit their failings want us to believe that they may have had a failure before – but NOW they have it all figured out, we believe that too (hell, we all do the same thing).

    At the end of the day, all I ever want to be able to say is that I tried my best. If that’s not good enough, then maybe I’m not in the right field for me and that’s ok. Above all that I tried, persisted – and enjoyed the process and added some value to others along the way. That’s success in my book.

    • J. D. Bentley
      June 10, 2010 | 2:04 am

      These are some excellent words of wisdom. I wish the people that are typically regarded as ‘successful’ would just come out with their current failures. The idea that failure is something we can put behind us is a crazy one when you really think about it, but very prevalent.

      I’m with you on this one. If you try your best and enjoy the process (hopefully learn from the process) then that’s all that really matters.

  9. Sonicsuns
    June 10, 2010 | 4:02 am

    I hope to follow in your footsteps. Freedom for all! =)

    • J. D. Bentley
      June 10, 2010 | 7:52 am

      No doubt! It’s easy enough to get where I am (not that it’s anywhere special, but it’s nice.)