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How to Stop Procrastinating and Start Living the Life You Want
It’s ironic that I’ve spent the last thirty minutes finding excuses to not work on this post. I’ve had to get some water, turn on a fan, check my email one last time, take off my shoes and on and on before I felt like I’d be ready to start writing. This is clearly my mind playing worthless games. Not only would having water or turning on a fan not help me be more productive, for those thirty minutes it actually hindered productivity. But I finally came to my senses and realized exactly what was happening and now I’m sitting here with a paragraph down feeling better and more focused than ever.
Truth be told, you’ll never overcome procrastination. You’ll have good days and you’ll have bad days. If you want to be a freelancer or a blogger or finally attain that location independent status, first you need to learn to minimize procrastination so you can work toward things that matter, things that directly relate to your goals. The best way to minimize procrastination is to be more aware and to recognize it when it creeps up on you.
Being Aware of Your Procrastination
I’ve recently learned exactly what it feels like to procrastinate. My head throbs. I get an absolute information overload and spend a considerable amount of time cycling through the same four or five sites. It might be similar for you.
Usually when you procrastinate you’ll feel it deep down. In the pit of your stomach or the back of your mind there will be a nagging little voice telling you that something needs to be done and it will keep you very uncomfortable until you either write it down in some kind of todo list or actually do it.
The video I’ve posted above is a great example of what procrastination looks like for most people. Procrastination loves to disguise itself as productivity. This typically means you’ll be doing very necessary things that would have had to be done anyway and this may be efficient, but it’s by no means effective. To live the life you want, you have to do those tasks which will get you there. Buying groceries or cleaning your desk or washing dishes likely won’t get you anywhere.
The best way to stay aware of what you are doing is to leave yourself a note somewhere near your computer monitor or workspace asking yourself if what you are doing at that moment actually matters or if you are inventing things to avoid what’s important. If you have constant reminders, you’ll be more likely to stay on track.
If you’re like me you’ll probably forget to check your note or just ignore it after a while. There are two ways to deal with this that I’ve been experimenting with. The first is setting my homepage to www.stickyscreen.org. StickyScreen is very simple. It just displays a single sticky note-esque yellow square. On it you can write whatever you want. Mine currently says “Are you focusing on the important?” Each time I try to sneak away from my work and open a browser, that’s what I see. It’s done a pretty effective job of keeping me on task.
Second, if you use Mac OS X you also have the option of setting up an Apple script that will interrupt you every twenty minutes with a dialog box that reminds you to do what’s important. To set up this script, go to Spotlight and search for Script Editor. Once Script Editor is open, paste the following:
set delayTime to 60 * 20
repeat
display dialog "I hope you are doing what actually matters. Continue?" buttons {"Yes", "No"} default button 1
if the button returned of the result is "Yes" thendelay delayTimeelseexit repeatend if
end repeat
Save the file wherever and as whatever you’d like to call it. Whenever you’d like the script to run, just double click it like you would an application and it will open in Script Editor. Click the green “Run” button.
What To Do When You’re Procrastinating
After you’ve realized you’re procrastinating there is one immediate step to take that will always get you working. Whatever it is you have to do, commit to working on it for just five minutes and set a reward for when you are finished. That’s all it takes. Just five minutes. You’ll feel less intimidated by the project if you know you’ll only be working on it for five minutes and knowing that you’ll get some kind of reward at the end is enough motivation to get started.
Once you do get started, though, there’s a good chance you’ll stick with it way past the five minute minimum. Getting Things Started is much more important than Getting Things Done in my experience. Usually if you just get them started, finishing it will be a breeze.
That’s what procrastination is after all — to delay starting a task.
Conclusion
Before you can live the life you want, before you can be a freelancer or a blogger or an entrepreneur, you have to become self-determined and self-motivated. Some people are born with this naturally, but I do believe that they are skills that are easy enough to develop. I’ve had to develop them myself. The number one killer of self-determination and self-motivation is procrastination.
Learn to overcome that and you can conquer the world.
11 Responses to How to Stop Procrastinating and Start Living the Life You Want
Carla
July 29, 2009 | 6:49 pm
All that is so true! You just forgot to mention how crappy procrastination makes you feel after an unproductive day. Those tips are great, I'm setting the sticky-note as my homepage, love it.
Procrastination is an evil one. I have a color print out with all the key areas of my life that I keep in my idea book and on my desk. It is helpful to look at the things I should be working on when I am screwing around.
I am a very visual person so I make logos and color code the key areas of my life. It helps to keep the important things at the top of my attention.
I've always wished things like that worked for me. I've tried every system of organization you can imagine and the only thing that works is pure simplicity. I end up relying on simple todo lists and a vague outline of long term goals.
I've started getting in a habit of doing very little work each day, but making it count. And I feel like I've been succeeding ever sense.
I checked out JetSetCitizen now and subscribed to the email! Awesome site. I'm really wanting to get into travel and location independence.
"I've started getting in a habit of doing very little work each day, but making it count. And I feel like I've been succeeding ever sense."
This is my ultimate goal. As it is now, I can have the whole day to myself, but my focus is so weak that I blur the line between work time and recreation/fun, etc time. It would be so much better to be able to work at 100% intensity for a set amount of time, then drop work completely and do whatever.
Great article and site, btw. I can't get over the irony of how I found this post by procrastinating on Twitter. But now I have my StickyScreen set up with a message that makes me think twice, which should help (opening my browser is always my first procrastination move).
Yeah, I go 100% intensity for maybe 2 or 4 hours a day. It works out pretty well for me. If I don't make work a chore, I actually enjoy it and find myself being more productive than when I make myself work.
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Ricardo
August 4, 2009 | 5:43 pm
I agree it's really important to give your best and be disciplined to push forward what "you really want to do". However, frequently we dont quite know what we really wanna do, even though we suppose we do. Sometimes, procrastination is a signal that, maybe, thinks need to be thought over, 'cause we aint really still have all that willpower and conviction to do them. In that case, taking a break to think, however "improductive" that may be, is probably better than just letting things go on automatically.
Agreed, Ricardo. This is a post more for people who already know what they want to do. If someone hasn't thought about what they want yet, they should definitely read Sean Ogle's post "Abolishing the Someday Mindset" http://wageslaverebel.com/2009/08/abolishing-the-…
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All that is so true! You just forgot to mention how crappy procrastination makes you feel after an unproductive day. Those tips are great, I'm setting the sticky-note as my homepage, love it.
Thanks, Carla. I've found StickyScreen to be pretty helpful. Glad you liked it!
Hey, I have my own nagging voice to tell me I'm procrastinating. I don't need you showing up in my RSS feed to tell me, too!
Maybe it wasn't clear from the article, but procrastination is a TRULY awesome thing when it gets me traffic.
GTS, I like that. Getting Things Started.
Procrastination is an evil one. I have a color print out with all the key areas of my life that I keep in my idea book and on my desk. It is helpful to look at the things I should be working on when I am screwing around.
I am a very visual person so I make logos and color code the key areas of my life. It helps to keep the important things at the top of my attention.
I've always wished things like that worked for me. I've tried every system of organization you can imagine and the only thing that works is pure simplicity. I end up relying on simple todo lists and a vague outline of long term goals.
I've started getting in a habit of doing very little work each day, but making it count. And I feel like I've been succeeding ever sense.
I checked out JetSetCitizen now and subscribed to the email! Awesome site. I'm really wanting to get into travel and location independence.
"I've started getting in a habit of doing very little work each day, but making it count. And I feel like I've been succeeding ever sense."
This is my ultimate goal. As it is now, I can have the whole day to myself, but my focus is so weak that I blur the line between work time and recreation/fun, etc time. It would be so much better to be able to work at 100% intensity for a set amount of time, then drop work completely and do whatever.
Great article and site, btw. I can't get over the irony of how I found this post by procrastinating on Twitter.
But now I have my StickyScreen set up with a message that makes me think twice, which should help (opening my browser is always my first procrastination move).
Yeah, I go 100% intensity for maybe 2 or 4 hours a day. It works out pretty well for me. If I don't make work a chore, I actually enjoy it and find myself being more productive than when I make myself work.
I'm glad you like the site
Feel free to subscribe to the newsletter.
I agree it's really important to give your best and be disciplined to push forward what "you really want to do". However, frequently we dont quite know what we really wanna do, even though we suppose we do. Sometimes, procrastination is a signal that, maybe, thinks need to be thought over, 'cause we aint really still have all that willpower and conviction to do them. In that case, taking a break to think, however "improductive" that may be, is probably better than just letting things go on automatically.
Agreed, Ricardo. This is a post more for people who already know what they want to do. If someone hasn't thought about what they want yet, they should definitely read Sean Ogle's post "Abolishing the Someday Mindset" http://wageslaverebel.com/2009/08/abolishing-the-…
[...] I found to help along the way… 22 Inspiration Quotes to get you moving (read time 3 minute) How to Stop Procrastinating and Start Living the Life You Want – you need to learn to minimize procrastination so you can work toward things that matter, things [...]