During the brief five weeks I spent as a full-fledged college student, I had the great fortune of accidentally enrolling in a course called The Creative Process. In fact, it was the first college class I had ever attended and, for that, the most memorable.
I’m by no means an extrovert, but my 19-year-old self was even less so, going to outrageous lengths just to avoid uncomfortable situations. That being the case, the first day of classes was an absolute nightmare for me. On that morning (and for several mornings after) I suffered fits of nervous sickness that culminated in pre-class dry heaving sessions and sweaty, shallow-breathed scavenger hunts for illusive classrooms.
I was in the habit of arriving for any event at least 30 minutes ahead of schedule so as to make myself familiar with my new surroundings. This usually did wonders to calm my nerves and help me ease into new environments and situations. As I sat on a bench outside of a locked art room, I watched as a crowd of my fellow students started to pack the hall. These students weren’t all that dissimilar from the people I had known in high school. Not to say that I was or am any more inclined to intellectual pursuits than anyone else, but these students seemed more juvenile than not, more interested in college as a store-bought commodity than a series of lessons in critical thinking and problem solving. They also overly enjoyed their newfound freedom to insert the word “fuck” into any and all sentences without rebuke from any authority figures.
I only mention their behavior because, as it turned out, the nature of this course was more revolutionary than one might expect from something that sounds as fluffy and ambiguous as “The Creative Process” and certainly contained more depth and profundity than college freshmen deserved. The professor appeared pushing through the crowd, dressed quite plainly in jeans and a button-up shirt. He was a lanky bespectacled man in his late-forties to mid-fifties who had the friendliest demeanor and showcased the sharpest wit.
Once we had all shuffled into the room and found a seat, he put forth the oddest introduction I’ve ever witnessed.
Imagine, if you will, the one thing you would most like to do in life. Picture it in your mind. The thing that most intrigues you, that most interests you. Imagine your calling.
Now imagine that you are being presented with two options. The first, to practice your calling for seven days and then die a painful death. The second, to practice a trade for which you have no passion for eighty years and then die peacefully in your sleep.
The students at the front of the class called out without hesitation in favor of the latter option. It’s better, they argued, to live eighty years doing what you have no interest in and dying peacefully because living longer presents you with the opportunity to experience more happiness. To this the professor responded…
Do you measure the quality of a life by its duration or by the intensity with which it’s lived?
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wow. what an incredible professor. i love this post, thanks for sharing that story.
How about doing something till one is eighty and then dying peacefully? I sort of see his point? but it seemed to come to an abrupt ending. Will there be any more to this story?
That is a pretty powerful post J.D.
The professor sounds great. I had a few cool professors but they were the exception.
Hey JD! Great post man, you had my attention all the way through.
As for the answer, it depends how set in stone the two options are. If you have 80 years but work a job you hate, you only work the usual 9-5 and have all those other hours and weekends free to start a side business,follow you hobbies and create something to break out of the job. You still get to have a wife, maybe start a family, get to travel every now and then. So if all this was possible I would choose the second option.
Thanks for sharing. Btw, your sharing twitter icon does not work correctly, maybe have a look? Cheers Diggy
Great message, JD
Yeah, my art teacher in High School always seems to show up on any list of heroes I write out. As far as visual arts is concerned, I suck, except for Photography. He only had one strict rule in his class. "No erasers allowed"
I'd like to hear about the rest of the five weeks.
Rasheed
Doing Industrial Design at university we had a few awesome teachers like the one you speak of who really changed my thinking in very visual ways.
One such teacher spent the very first 3 hours of our first lecture creating the most brilliant pen and ink rendering of a car concept. We were stunned with his abilty and penmenship…but were soon to find out that develping pour skills was not the lesson.
At the end of the lesson he calmly picked up the drawing, removed his lighter from his pocket and set it on fire, destroying his work. He ended the lesson simply saying "If you get precious about your ideas or your abilities you have already lost" and walked out.
I liked that lecturer.
Great post
Great question!! Having worked at the same place for the past 36+ years, I often look back and say, what if….. Making decisions based on "finances" vs passion is not a fair trade. I think humans are creative beings by nature and to stiffle that creative energy and flow, makes us less than what we are, and prevents us from touching all of the lives we could have…. who knows the impact of just 1 song, one photograph, one painting, one new non-profit organization. I cannot change the past, all I can do now is hope to do better in the future and during retirement.
Somehow, this question reminds me of THE LAST LECTURE by Randy Pausch. If you have not seen it, I highly recommend you invest 1 hour to watch it.
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Very nice. I'm going to say I measure quality of life with intensity here. But, lifestyle design is all about finding the middle ground, and that's what we are all striving for! It's possible to live a long, and very happy life doing stuff that doesn't suck.
I vote for intensity. But I suppose that's always been my way. I see the value in living a long life and having all the time outside of your profession to pursue the lifestyle you want and your passions, and that might work alright if you know you get to live for 80 years. But we don't know that. So I vote for intensity, because if all else fails, I had an unforgettable week (though I'd be dead, so I don't know why unforgettable would be important), fulfilled all my dreams, and would carry no regrets.
"Do you measure the quality of a life by its duration or by the intensity with which it’s lived?"
When you give everything that you are to something and it is done with full focus, each moment can feel like an eternity. Time seemingly stops-it is so wonderful. Give me the 7 days of intensity and then you can do with this body what you will.
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The professor is very wise. I rather have 7 days of life in heaven than eighty years in hell